It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it~
Be it a person, place, your dog or even your old car. Everything's got a particular smell. And you DO mostly tend to not notice its importance. When it's gone, you feel uneasy. . You want it back. And badly.
But as you all are blissfully aware, life sucks. Get used it.
'Cause one day you will get up, forgetting his/her smell. Their face will stop haunting you. They will no longer be the voice in your head. You will smile at those memories, but the want to reliving them will no longer be there. That day my friend, you will truly get over and move one.
So yes, stop feeling sorry. Don't get your lazy ass around the house and lament over your loss. And wishing for somebody who shall make you feel better, who will help you.
Cause that somebody is you.
It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but its also true we don't know what we're missing until it arrives. =)
Happiness is waiting, open your door!